The
Partner
Assessment
Your experience is the data.
Complete this on your own, without your partner present or guiding your answers.
Do not soften scores to protect effort. Effort and intention are not the metric — impact is. Answer based on what you've actually experienced in the last 30–60 days.
- A performance review
- A weapon
- A demand for change
- Something to argue over
- A snapshot of lived experience
- Data for growth
- A mirror for blind spots
- A tool for shared understanding
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For the Husband
When your partner shares this with you, these are the only questions worth sitting with.
Where is my experience of myself more generous than my partner's experience of me?
What behaviors might she be responding to that I minimize or normalize?
What would change if I treated her assessment as data rather than as judgment?
Send your results to your inbox.
You'll receive your full breakdown and a copy will go to Jonah. Your results stay private to you — this is your record, not a report card.
DM that word on Instagram and I'll walk you both through what your scores together reveal — and what the work looks like from here.
This is where assessment becomes conversation.
He received a 6-character code at the end of his Self Assessment (e.g. ABC-DEF). Enter it here to generate your side-by-side Comparison Report.
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Send your assessment results directly to Jonah for a personalized breakdown of what your scores reveal.
